Clarity.

After receiving a slew of questions regarding my last post, I figured I should clarify a few matters.

It’s funny, I got about ten million congratulations on jumping the gun and being in a relationship, and also people wondering who this guy was and so on.  I also found out through the grapevine that others have read my post and assumed that I was suddenly in a relationship.
Also, it makes me laugh that people who have proclaimed themselves as being done with me and staying out of my life, find it in their time to go about reading my posts.  I’m an open book, so I don’t care. I just think it’s funny.

Now for the clarification portion of the evening:
1 – In no way does “seeing” someone mean that I am in a relationship.  It means that we are exploring our options, enjoying time together, without commitment.
2 – In no way does “having it bad” for someone dictate the dreaded L-word(you know the one…that evil word).  I am not in love, nor am I falling in love.  I like him.  I do like him a lot, mind you, but that does not mean love. 
3 – We’re not dating, nor will we ever date.  Circumstances won’t allow for anything substantial, and we are both aware of that, and totally okay with it.  We’re playing things by ear, and have both told each other that we want nothing to do with a committed relationship.  I will never call him my boyfriend and he will never call me his girlfriend. (Except for those two times, we decided to date, woke up the next morning, looked at each other and pretty much laughed, calling the whole thing off.)

I’m allowed to have my fun.  I’m allowed to see someone without the “relationship” being scrutinized and analyzed under a microscope.

PS: Stop reading up on me.  You said you were done with me.  How about acting on what you say?